The Friday News Minute!
A weekly gem of information you will be using on Monday!
Published by Andrew Sanderbeck
Managing Partner of The People~Connect Institute
www.peopleconnectinstitute.com
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This week in my Friday News Minute, I have an article to share with you about being liked and building healthy relationships. This article by Donald Latumahina looks at 33 tips to becoming a well liked person. While I enjoy the one simple rule he lists here, I also caution you to remember that forming relationships only on the basis of being liked is usually a very painful experience. When your goal is to be respected by others you will find that you are usually liked by others too! - Andrew
Being well liked is what most people want in relationships. The benefits are obvious. You will get the help you need at the time you need it. People will give you information about new opportunities you didn’t know before. Above all, they will really care and love you.
But how could you get other people to like you? How could you become a well liked person? There is actually just one simple rule to follow: you should like other people before they like you. When people realize that you like them, it’s very likely that they will also like you.
Regarding this, I believe that there is one and just one message you need to deliver in your relationships. Delivering this message is the key to strong relationships, and here it is:
You are important to me.
That’s it. No more, no less. Not “your money” nor “your knowledge”, but “you” - as a person - are important to me. Anything you should do in relationships stems from this message. There more you succeed in delivering this message, the more people will like you.
So here I’d like to share 33 tips on how to deliver this message in your relationships. Consequently, these are also tips to become a well liked person. Here they are:
Source: http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/07/25/33-tips-to-become-a-well-liked-person/
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